ok, this is some confusing convoluted stuff. have you been TOGETHER for a month and a half, or not? and how do you take a break from someone who isn't your gf? <BR
thats why i'd never date a single mom because the dude is only a sidebar and second class citizen who will always have to take a back seat to her kids, and he'll never mean anything to her except for some novelty item that she plays with on her terms